Cov menyuam yaus xav dag tus neeg mob txhua lub sijhawm, thiab feem ntau tsis muaj kev txawj ntse ntawm Ferris Bueller. Qee tus menyuam yaus dag kev mob vim tias lawv tau dhuav lossis nyuaj nrog kev ua haujlwm hauv tsev kawm ntawv; qee tus menyuam yaus dag mob vim tias lawv raug thab plaub; thiab qee zaum, cov menyuam tsuas xav tau so. Debunking ib tus neeg thov kom muaj mob tsis yog kev tshawb fawb tseeb, tab sis hauv qab no yog qee cov lus qhia yog tias koj xav tias koj tus menyuam raug dag.
Cov kauj ruam
Ntu 1 ntawm 4: Txheeb Xyuas Cov tsos mob
Kauj Ruam 1. Nug tus me nyuam muaj tsos mob dab tsi
Cov menyuam yaus uas piav qhia cov tsos mob tsis meej uas txav los ntawm ib feem ntawm lub cev mus rau lwm qhov yam tsis muaj kev txiav txim siab feem ntau dag.
- Yog tias, ntawm qhov tod tes, lawv cov tsos mob pom tseeb thiab feem ntau mus ua ke-zoo li qhov ntswg los ntswg thiab mob caj pas, lossis mob plab thiab raws plab-uas tsis yog tus chij liab.
- Nug koj tus menyuam ob zaug rau lawv cov tsos mob. Yog tias lawv hloov lawv qhov kev tsis txaus siab zaum thib ob, lawv feem ntau yuav dag thiab tsis nco qab cov tsos mob uas lawv tau ua thawj zaug.
Kauj Ruam 2. Ntsuas lawv qhov ntsuas kub
Tsis txhob tawm hauv chav tom qab muab koj tus menyuam tus pas ntsuas kub. Coob tus menyuam tau tawm ntawm kev mus kawm ntawv los ntawm kev ntsuas tus pas ntsuas kub hauv qab lub kais dej kub lossis tuav nws mus rau lub teeb taws kub.
Coj lawv qhov ntsuas kub thib ob ob peb feeb tom qab. Nws nyuaj heev kom ua kom kub cev mus thaum lawv tau siv cov phuam kub los yog haus cov dej sov
Kauj Ruam 3. Mloog lub suab ntuav thiab xyuas seb qhov hnoos tsis hnov tsw
Yog tias koj tus menyuam hais tias lawv tau ntuav lawm, tej zaum koj yuav hnov thiab pom nws.
Kauj Ruam 4. Saib rau ntawm daim tawv nqaij
Koj tus menyuam puas daj ntseg thiab qias neeg? Cov tawv nqaij clammy yog tshwm sim los ntawm ntau yam, suav nrog kev tsis haum tshuaj, mob hnyav, ntxhov siab, lub cev qhuav dej, thiab mob ntsws.
Kauj Ruam 5. Nug yog tias koj tuaj yeem kov lawv lub plab
Qee zaum cov menyuam yws tias mob plab. Yog tias lawv tsis pub koj kov lawv lub plab thiab tsis kam noj lossis haus, lawv yuav mob plab.
Mob plab tuaj yeem tshwm sim los ntawm cem quav, kis kab mob, thiab qee zaum qee yam loj dua. Hu rau koj tus kws kho mob yog tias koj tus menyuam muaj mob plab ntev
Kauj Ruam 6. Txheeb xyuas lawv lub qhov muag
Yog koj tus menyuam lub qhov muag saib liab, liab dawb, lossis dej, nug lawv seb lawv lub qhov muag puas thab lawv. Thaum nws tsuas yog ua xua, yog tias nws zoo li tawv, nws yuav yog qhov muag liab.
Yog tias koj tus menyuam muaj qhov muag liab, coj lawv mus rau kws kho mob. Kev kis tus kab mob no tuaj yeem kis tau yooj yim heev
Ntu 2 ntawm 4: Txheeb Xyuas Qib Zog
Kauj Ruam 1. Qhia kom mus ntsib kws kho mob lossis noj tshuaj
Txawm tias cov menyuam yaus uas tsis nyiam kws kho mob lossis tshuaj yuav pom zoo ua txhua yam lawv xav tau txhawm rau kom muaj kev zoo siab. Yog tias koj tus menyuam tsis kam saib xyuas, tej zaum vim lawv tsis xav tau!
Kauj Ruam 2. Tshaj tawm yog tias koj tus menyuam zoo li zoo siab nyob hauv tsev
Yog tias lawv mus los ntawm qhov muag-qhov muag mus rau qhov muag pom, lawv yuav tab tom nrhiav ib hnub txhawm rau "Arthur."
Khaws pob ntseg rau yam hais txog kev ua tom tsev. Yog tias lawv squeal nrog kev zoo siab ntawm kev xav tsis tas yuav ua ib qho hnub no, qhov no yuav yog lub cim qhia tias lawv tab tom sim zam qee yam
Kauj Ruam 3. Txwv koj tus menyuam cov dej num
Tsis txhob txhawb kom nyob hauv tsev. Yog tias nyob hauv tsev mob txhais tau tias yog kev kho tshwj xeeb thiab ib hnub hauv TV, lawv yuav tsis xav poob qab hauv tsev kawm ntawv.
Hnub mob yog txhais tau tias yog so thiab rov ua haujlwm, uas tuaj yeem suav nrog saib TV kom lom zem rau koj tus kheej thaum tus txheej txheem. Txawm li cas los xij, yog tias koj tus menyuam muaj kev ceeb toom heev thaum saib TV, es tsis txhob dag ntawm lub rooj zaum thiab saib los ntawm ntsiag to, so qhov muag, lawv yuav muaj lwm qhov laj thawj
Kauj Ruam 4. Tshaj tawm yog tias lawv tau siv zog ntxiv tom qab hnub ntawd
Yog li koj hais tias lawv tuaj yeem nyob hauv tsev, thiab tom qab nees nkaum feeb ntawm kev tsaug zog ntxiv lawv tau ua si nrog LEGO thiab khiav ib puag ncig. Tej zaum lawv yuav dag koj ib zaug, tab sis lawv yuav tsis dag koj dua.
Ntu 3 ntawm 4: Tshawb Fawb Txog Cov Lus Qhia Txog Hnub Kawm Ntawv
Kauj Ruam 1. Nug koj tus menyuam seb yuav muaj dab tsi tshwm sim hauv tsev kawm ntawv hnub no
Nco tseg yog tias koj tus menyuam yooj yim muaj mob nyob rau hnub ntawm kev xeem US Txoj Cai Lij Choj. Yog tias lawv tsis tau kawm txaus, lawv yuav sim ua ib hnub ntxiv rau cov menyuam.
- Yog tias lawv txhawj xeeb heev txog kev nthuav qhia lossis sim, lawv yuav ua rau lub cev mob. Pab lawv txhawm rau txheeb xyuas dab tsi uas lawv txhawj xeeb txog thiab tawm tswv yim daws teeb meem nrog lawv.
- Cov menyuam yaus tsis muaj kev paub txog tus kheej hais tias, "Kuv zoo siab hnub no." Qhia lawv tias nws yog ib qho uas txaus ntshai, thiab saib seb koj puas tuaj yeem pab lawv hla lawv qhov kev ntshai.
Kauj Ruam 2. Saib seb koj tus menyuam puas nrog lawv cov kws qhia ntawv tham
Qee tus menyuam yeej tsis nyem nrog lawv tus kws qhia. Yog tias koj tus menyuam tab tom raug mob kom zam lawv tus kws qhia ntawv, qhov no tuaj yeem dhau los ua tus qauv.
- Yog tias qhov no yog, koj yuav tsum tau tham ncaj qha nrog koj tus menyuam tus kws qhia ntawv los daws qhov teeb meem.
- Tshawb nrhiav yog tias lwm tus tub ntxhais kawm tau nyuaj nrog tus kws qhia tshwj xeeb no. Yog tsis yog, nws yuav yog qhov tshwj xeeb rau koj tus menyuam txoj kev kawm lossis tus yam ntxwv.
Kauj Ruam 3. Tshawb xyuas seb koj tus menyuam puas raug thab plaub
Kwv yees li 30 feem pua ntawm cov tub ntxhais kawm qib 6-10 raug cuam tshuam los ntawm kev thab plaub. Kev nkag siab, cov cuam tshuam los ntawm nws tuaj yeem xaiv ua kom tsis raug mob txhawm rau txhawm rau hla qhov kev thuam.
Kauj Ruam 4. Xav txog yam tsis tau kuaj pom yog tias qhov no yog tus qauv
Cov menyuam uas muaj xwm txheej xws li kev kawm tsis tau zoo, ADHD, autism, thiab mob hlwb tuaj yeem tawm tsam hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Txij li thaum tsev kawm ntawv dhau los ua qhov nyuaj rau lawv, lawv tuaj yeem dag tus neeg mob kom sim thiab tawm ntawm nws. Cov teeb meem tshwm sim uas yuav ua rau muaj teeb meem hauv tsev kawm ntawv suav nrog:
- Ua tib zoo saib xyuas qhov tsis txaus ntseeg hyperactivity teeb meem (ADHD) tuaj yeem ua rau tsis mloog lus, ua rau lub siab tawv, thiab tsis xav ua. Cov menyuam yaus nrog ADHD tuaj yeem ua rau tsis zoo lossis tsis nco qab, tawm tsam los zaum lossis mloog tus xibfwb qhia, ua rau tsis muaj dab tsi, lossis coj tus yam ntxwv tsis raug cai. Tej zaum lawv yuav ntsib teeb meem ntau zaus, tau qhab nia tsis zoo, lossis ua rau lawv lom zem.
- Kev ntxhov siab tuaj yeem ua teeb meem tsom mus rau tsev kawm ntawv (vim tus menyuam txhawj xeeb heev), thiab tuaj yeem ua rau pom lub cev zoo li mob taub hau, mob plab, lossis ntuav. Qee qhov kev ntxhov siab, xws li OCD lossis kev ntxhov siab hauv zej zog, tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev paub tus kheej thiab ntshai kev thab plaub.
- Autism tuaj yeem ua rau muaj teeb meem nrog kev ua lus, kev sib raug zoo hauv zej zog, xav tau kev niaj hnub thiab kev paub, teeb meem kev ua haujlwm, teeb meem lub cev muaj zog, thiab teeb meem kev xav. Cov menyuam yaus uas muaj tus kheej yuav ceev faj lossis tsis nyiam tsev kawm ntawv vim tias muaj kev ntxhov siab, kev tsis sib haum xeeb hauv zej zog, teeb meem ua haujlwm tsis tiav, thiab tsis sib xws hauv cov sijhawm niaj hnub.
- Kev kawm tsis tau tuaj yeem ua teeb meem nrog ib lossis ntau yam kev kawm hauv tsev kawm. Cov menyuam yaus uas tawm tsam nrog dyslexia, dyscalculia, lossis dysgraphia tej zaum yuav txaj muag thiab tsis xav tso rau qhov uas lawv tab tom tawm tsam, thiab muaj kev ntxhov siab txog cov haujlwm uas cuam tshuam nrog cov ncauj lus.
- Kev mob hlwb zoo li kev nyuaj siab lossis kev puas siab puas ntsws bipolar tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev tsis quav ntsej, qib zog tsis sib xws, thiab tsis muaj kev txaus siab rau cov haujlwm yav dhau los. Tej zaum lawv yuav pom cov tsos mob ntawm lub cev zoo li mob taub hau lossis mob plab.
- Kev xiam oob khab kawm tsis yog lus tuaj yeem ua rau muaj teeb meem nrog tus thawj coj ua haujlwm, kev paub tsis hais lus, kev sib raug zoo hauv zej zog, kev tswj lub cev muaj zog, thiab kev sib tham ntau dhau. Cov menyuam yaus nrog NVLD nyiam tawm tsam ntau dua hauv nruab nrab thiab tsev kawm theem siab, tab sis tej zaum lawv yuav muaj kev nyuaj siab dhau los vim lawv lub peev xwm hais tau zoo thiab nco tau.
- Kev ua tsis taus pa tuaj yeem ua rau tsis nyiam tsev kawm ntawv. Tus menyuam yuav raug rau qhov nkag siab dhau los lossis ua rau lub siab nkag siab, lossis muaj teeb meem rau kev xav-coj tus cwj pwm (xws li rhuav daim ntawv lossis txhob txwm ua rau hauv phab ntsa).
- Kev raug mob tuaj yeem ua rau muaj teeb meem tsom mus rau, kev saib xyuas nruj, hloov tus yam ntxwv, thiab cov tsos mob ntawm lub cev zoo li mob taub hau lossis mob plab. Tus menyuam uas raug mob yuav tsis kam mus kawm ntawv, tshwj xeeb yog qhov xwm txheej raug mob tshwm sim tom tsev kawm ntawv.
Ntu 4 ntawm 4: Txiav txim siab seb puas yuav tso koj tus menyuam nyob Hauv Tsev
Kauj Ruam 1. Xav seb qhov no dhau los ua tus qauv
Yog tias nws zoo li txhua hnub Tuesday thiab Thursday-gym hnub-me me Xamuyee los nrog qhov tsis meej pem cramp, nws yuav zoo li xa nws mus kawm ntawv.
- Yog tias koj ncaj ncees tsis tuaj yeem qhia thiab nws tsis yog tus qauv, mus nrog koj lub plab. Yog tias koj tus menyuam mob tiag tiag, tsev kawm ntawv yuav xa lawv mus tsev.
- Yog tias koj pom tias koj tus menyuam mob ntau zaus, tabsis tsis nyob rau hnub so, ua tib zoo saib xyuas lub sijhawm tom ntej uas lawv thov tias muaj mob.
Kauj Ruam 2. Khaws lawv hauv tsev los ntawm tsev kawm ntawv yog tias lawv muaj cov tsos mob tshwm sim
Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob xa koj tus menyuam mus kawm ntawv yog tias lawv muaj qhov kub siab tshaj 100.4 Fahrenheit, ntuav, raws plab, mob tsis tu ncua, lossis tsis zoo, hnoos ntub.
Qhov no tsis yog tsuas yog rau koj tus menyuam txoj kev noj qab haus huv, tab sis rau kev noj qab haus huv ntawm lawv cov kws qhia ntawv thiab cov phooj ywg hauv chav kawm
Kauj Ruam 3. Paub txog tias txhua tus xav tau so qee lub sijhawm
Nws nyuaj rau ntseeg tias cov menyuam muaj kev ntxhov siab, tab sis lawv ua! Qee lub sij hawm lis xaus tsis muaj sij hawm txaus rau lawv caum cuag, tshwj xeeb yog tias lawv hnyav nrog cov phiaj xwm.
- Cov tsos mob uas piav tsis tau tuaj yeem yog ib qho cim ntawm lwm yam. Kev ntxhov siab, kev nyuaj siab, lossis lwm yam teeb meem tuaj yeem tshwm sim lawv tus kheej hauv lub cev.
- Qee zaum nws yog qhov zoo tshaj kom tso lawv tawm, txawm tias koj paub tias lawv dag. Tej zaum yuav muaj qee yam tshwm sim uas ua rau lawv ntshai heev los ntawm kev mus kawm ntawv, xws li teeb meem phooj ywg lossis kev thab plaub.
Lub tswv yim
- Nyob hauv tib chav nrog koj tus menyuam kom paub tseeb tias lawv muaj mob tiag.
- Ib txwm tshuaj xyuas koj tus menyuam. Koj yeej tsis paub yog tias lawv tab tom khiav ib puag ncig, ua si hauv computer, thiab lwm yam.
- Yog tias koj tus menyuam tab tom dag nws tiag, nrhiav qhov qhia paub - xws li daim phuam qias neeg koj tsis paub ib tus neeg siv, lossis iav kub. Qhov no feem ntau tshwm sim rau kev ua npaws.
- Yog tias koj tus menyuam tsis zoo li tab sis zoo li tu siab thiab xav nyob hauv tsev, tham nrog koj tus menyuam tus kws qhia ntawv thiab nug seb puas muaj xwm txheej tshwm sim los ntawm kev thab plaub.
- Txheeb xyuas ntau yam "yuav ua li cas dag tus neeg mob" cov ntawv, vim koj tus menyuam yuav tau mus ntsib lawv, thiab koj tuaj yeem nrhiav qhov zoo sib xws.
