Koj cov khoom xav tau yog qhov tseem ceeb rau koj. Txawm li cas los xij, sau cov khoom ntau dhau ua rau muaj teeb meem uas tuaj yeem tiv thaiv koj los ntawm kev siv koj qhov chaw nyob los tsim lub neej uas koj xav tau. Kev tso cov khoom xa mus mus yog qhov nyuaj heev, tab sis koj yuav hnov zoo dua thaum koj qhov chaw nyob tau teeb tsa ntau dua. Txhawm rau kom yooj yim tso cov khoom mus, txiav txim siab li cas koj qhov chaw nyob tuaj yeem txhawb nqa koj lub neej zoo tshaj plaws thiab ntsuas txhua yam khoom los txiav txim siab yog tias koj xav khaws nws.
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Txoj Kev 1 ntawm 3: Txiav Txim Siab Yam Khoom Yuav Khaws
Kauj Ruam 1. Txiav txim siab vim li cas koj thiaj khaws txhua yam khoom
Nug koj tus kheej seb txhua yam khoom sawv cev rau koj. Piv txwv li, nws tuaj yeem ceeb toom koj txog lub cim xeeb tshwj xeeb lossis tej zaum yuav yog khoom plig los ntawm ib tus neeg tshwj xeeb. Xav txog vim li cas ib yam khoom tseem ceeb yog li koj tuaj yeem txiav txim siab yog tias koj npaj txhij tso nws mus.
Piv txwv li, koj yuav tau khaws daim npav hnub yug qub uas qhia koj tias koj hlub koj li cas. Koj kuj tseem yuav muaj cov qub txeeg qub teg uas koj niam tais yawm txiv tau muab rau koj lossis cov nkauj ua yeeb yam uas ua rau koj nco tias koj muaj kev lom zem npaum li cas nrog koj cov phooj ywg
Kauj Ruam 2. Txiav txim siab yog tias ib yam khoom ua rau koj zoo siab
Tsis txhob nyuaj siab kom khaws cov khoom uas ua rau koj nyuaj siab lossis ua rau koj nyuaj rau ua lub neej uas koj xav tau. Nug koj tus kheej tias txhua qhov khoom xa tuaj uas koj tau ua rau koj zoo siab los tsis yog. Tsuas yog khaws cov khoom uas coj koj kev xyiv fab.
Piv txwv li, cia peb hais tias ib tus neeg hlub tau muab daim phaj dai kom zoo nkauj uas lawv tau pleev xim rau tes. Koj tuaj yeem xaiv khaws cov khoom no vim tias nws ua rau koj zoo siab. Ntawm qhov tod tes, koj tuaj yeem tso cov paj paj uas koj ntes tau ntawm lub tshoob vim nws tsuas yog khaws cov hmoov av
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Keith Bartolomei
Professional Organizer & Certified KonMari Consultant Keith Bartolomei is a Professional Organizer who runs his own consulting business called Zen Habitat based in the San Francisco Bay Area. Keith is a member of the National Association of Productivity and Organizing Professionals (NAPO), and is a Certified KonMari Consultant. He has over six years of organizational experience and has been trained in the art of tidying, including being trained by author of The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up, Marie Kondo, and her team. He has been voted as one of the Best Home Organizers in San Francisco by Expertise in 2018 and 2019.
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Professional Organizer & Certified KonMari Consultant
Did You Know?
Organizational guru Marie Kondo encourages you to ask if an item “sparks joy” for you. If an item isn’t making you happy, let it go!
Kauj Ruam 3. Nug koj tus kheej yog tias tus neeg muab khoom plig xav kom koj ua lub nra
Khoom plig yog ib qho ntawm cov khoom nyuaj tshaj plaws kom tso tseg, tab sis qhov ntawd tsis tau txhais hais tias koj yuav tsum cia khoom plig cuam tshuam rau koj lub neej. Txhawm rau pab koj tso khoom plig, nco koj tus kheej tias koj cov phooj ywg thiab tsev neeg yuav xav kom koj ua neej nyob kaj siab lug. Yog tias khoom plig tsis ua haujlwm rau koj, muab rau nws lossis muag nws.
Ib qho ntxiv, nco ntsoov tias tus neeg uas muab khoom plig rau koj yuav xav kom nws siv thiab nyiam. Yog tias koj tsis siv cov khoom muaj txiaj ntsig, muab rau ib tus neeg uas yuav
Kauj Ruam 4. Txheeb xyuas qhov khoom no haum rau koj lub neej txhua hnub
Nws yuav yooj yim dua tso cov khoom mus yog tias koj lees paub tias lawv tsis pab koj ua lub neej uas koj xav tau. Thaum koj tab tom tshuaj xyuas yam khoom, txiav txim siab yog tias koj puas tau siv cov khoom lossis tam sim no tso tawm nws ua khoom dai. Yog tias nws tsis yog qee yam uas koj siv lossis xav tau, cia nws mus yog li nws tsis dhau los ua pawg.
Piv txwv li, cia peb hais tias koj muaj cov duab kos uas koj tus menyuam tau ua. Cov no tuaj yeem nyuaj rau tshem tawm, tab sis nws yuav yooj yim dua yog tias koj xaiv 1 los tso saib thiab tso rau lwm tus mus. Txoj hauv kev no koj tuaj yeem nco qab lawv cov duab kos txhua hnub yam tsis muaj qhov cuam tshuam ntau dhau
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Keith Bartolomei
Professional Organizer & Certified KonMari Consultant Keith Bartolomei is a Professional Organizer who runs his own consulting business called Zen Habitat based in the San Francisco Bay Area. Keith is a member of the National Association of Productivity and Organizing Professionals (NAPO), and is a Certified KonMari Consultant. He has over six years of organizational experience and has been trained in the art of tidying, including being trained by author of The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up, Marie Kondo, and her team. He has been voted as one of the Best Home Organizers in San Francisco by Expertise in 2018 and 2019.
Keith Bartolomei
Professional Organizer & Certified KonMari Consultant
Be thoughtful of how you want to incorporate these items into your life
For each sentimental item you want to keep, think about how you can display that object in your home and life, instead of throwing it away. Be creative. Perhaps an old postcard rests at the bottom of your sock drawer, waiting to greet you on laundry day. Maybe photos and posters from your youth are used as secret decor in the closet. the possibilities are endless!
Kauj Ruam 5. Tau txais lub tswv yim thib ob los ntawm ib tus neeg uas tsis muaj kev xav
Yog tias koj yog tus neeg muaj lub siab xav, nws yuav nyuaj rau qhia qhov tseem ceeb thiab yam uas tsis yog. Tham nrog ib tus neeg uas tsis muaj kev xav yuav pab koj kom pom kev ntawm ib yam khoom. Thov kev pab nrog cov khoom nyuaj yog tias koj tab tom muaj teeb meem tso yam mus.
- Piv txwv li, koj yuav nug koj tus phooj ywg zoo tshaj los pab koj txheeb cov khoom.
- Yog tias koj tsis tuaj yeem pom ib tus neeg los hla thiab pab, ntsaws ib daim duab thiab sau ntawv mus rau lwm tus uas koj ntseeg. Nug, "Kuv puas yuav tsum khaws cov khoom no lossis tso nws mus? Nws tau khaws cia tom qab ntawm kuv lub txee dai khaub ncaws."
Kauj Ruam 6. Xaiv koj cov khoom uas koj nyiam tshaj plaws khaws cia tab sis cia tus so mus
Nws yooj yim dua los xaiv qhov koj xav tau piv rau yam koj xav tso. Ua tib zoo txheeb xyuas cov khoom uas koj xav khaws. Tom qab ntawd, pub dawb lossis muab tag nrho cov khoom seem. Qhov no yuav pab koj zoo li koj tab tom tsim lub neej uas koj nyiam ntau dua li tso tseg yam uas tseem ceeb rau koj.
Yog tias koj xav tias yuav tsum khaws qee yam, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj los cia nws mus. Tsuas yog khaws cov khoom koj xav tau tiag tiag
Txoj Kev 2 ntawm 3: Ntsuam Xyuas Koj Qhov Chaw Nyob
Kauj Ruam 1. Muab sijhawm rau koj tus kheej rau kev tshem koj qhov chaw
Txheeb cais cov nyom yog qhov nyuaj heev rau tib neeg feem coob, thiab nws yooj yim rau koj qhov kev vam meej rau kev lag luam. Txhawm rau ua kom koj tus kheej taug qab, teeb lub sijhawm txwv rau koj qhov kev ntxuav tu thiab teeb lub hom phiaj kom ua tiav koj qhov kev tshem tawm meej. Qhov no yuav tiv thaiv koj kom tsis txhob raug daig nyob rau theem tsis meej ntawm kev teeb tsa koj lub tsev.
- Piv txwv li, teeb tsa lub hom phiaj kom ua tiav koj qhov kev tshem tawm hauv 1 lub lis piam lossis muab koj tus kheej 4-teev thaiv ua haujlwm.
- Yog tias koj muaj ntau yam khoom, koj yuav tsum tau ua ob peb hnub los ntxuav kom tshem tag nrho koj cov teeb meem ntau dhau. Tsis txhob nyuaj siab kom ua txhua yam hauv ib hnub yog tias koj tab tom tawm tsam.
Kauj Ruam 2. Txiav txim seb koj yuav tsum tso chaw ntau npaum li cas lossis khaws cov khoom
Taug kev hla koj qhov chaw nyob thiab xav txog seb koj xav kom nws zoo li cas. Xav txog qhov chaw koj yuav tsum tso tawm thiab khaws cov khoom, nrog rau seb koj xav siv koj li chaw li cas. Qhov no yuav pab koj txiav txim siab pes tsawg yam khoom xa tuaj uas koj tuaj yeem txuag tau.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom paub txog qhov chaw koj muaj yog li koj tuaj yeem txiav txim siab qhov twg koj yuav tso txhua yam khoom koj khaws tseg. Yog tias koj tsis tuaj yeem pom qhov chaw rau ib yam khoom, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj kom tso nws mus
Kauj Ruam 3. Ua ntej ua ntej khaws cov khoom uas haum rau koj lub neej
Koj lub tsev yuav tsum pab koj ua neej nyob zoo tshaj plaws, tab sis kev sib tsoo tuaj yeem tiv thaiv koj los ntawm kev ua yam koj nyiam. Xav txog ntau npaum li cas qhov chaw koj xav tau kom txaus siab rau koj yam koj nyiam thiab nyiam. Thaum koj txheeb koj cov khoom, xav txog tias txhua yam khoom yuav cuam tshuam rau koj lub peev xwm los ua lub neej uas koj xav tau hauv koj lub tsev li cas.
- Piv txwv li, cia peb hais tias koj nyiam ua noj. Xav txog qhov chaw ntau npaum li cas uas koj xav tau los tso lossis khaws koj cov iav ua noj. Xyuas kom koj tuaj yeem nkag mus tau yooj yim rau koj cov iav thiab cov khoom xyaw.
- Ib yam li ntawd, koj yuav nyiam ua si guitar. Xaiv ib qho chaw los tso saib koj lub guitar thiab paub tseeb tias koj muaj chaw rau xyaum.
Kauj Ruam 4. Xaiv qhov chaw me me lossis lub thawv rau cov khoom xav tau
Nws tsis ua li cas kom khaws cov khoom xa tuaj yog tias lawv tseem ceeb rau koj. Txhawm rau zam kev tsim ntau qhov kev xav tsis zoo, txwv koj tus kheej rau qhov chaw me me rau kev cia. Zaub lossis khaws cov khoom, nyob ntawm seb yam twg ua haujlwm zoo tshaj rau koj.
Piv txwv li, koj tuaj yeem xaiv ib lub txee rau cov khoom xav tau lossis lub thawv khau me me rau kev nco zoo li cov duab, daim pib ua yeeb yaj kiab, thiab cov ntawv sib tw
Txoj Kev 3 ntawm 3: Tshaj Tawm Yam Koj Tsis Xav Tau Lawm
Kauj Ruam 1. Qhia lub cim xeeb ntawm cov khoom koj tsis xav kom nws yooj yim dua rau lawv mus
Kev tso cov khoom xa tuaj tuaj yeem xav zoo li koj tab tom muab lub cim xeeb, tab sis qhov ntawd tsis yog qhov tseeb tiag. Txawm li cas los xij, hwm koj cov kev nco yuav pab koj zoo siab txog kev tshem tawm koj cov teeb meem. Qhia lwm tus neeg txog kev nco khoom tshwj xeeb sawv cev. Qhov no pab koj khaws koj lub cim xeeb yam tsis tas yuav tuav cov khoom.
- Piv txwv li, tshaj tawm ib daim duab ntawm yam khoom ntawm koj tus social media account thiab qhia zaj dab neeg txog nws.
- Yog tias koj muaj cov nkauj sib dhos los ntawm thaum koj tau ntsib thawj zaug nrog koj lwm qhov tseem ceeb, koj tuaj yeem xa lawv cov duab ntawm cov qia nrog cov lus hais txog koj qhov kev hais kwv txhiaj nyiam.
Kauj Ruam 2. Hais "hais" rau cov khoom koj xav tso
Tej zaum koj yuav xav tias dag qhia ib yam khoom uas tsis muaj sia "nyob zoo," tab sis ua li ntawd tuaj yeem ua rau nws yooj yim dua kom tso ib yam khoom mus. Hais "goodbye" tsim kev kaw thiab pab koj hwm lub cim xeeb cuam tshuam nrog cov khoom koj tso tseg. Thaum koj txheeb koj cov khoom, qhia rau txhua tus neeg yam khoom "nyob zoo" lossis hais rau txhua yam khoom uas koj tso tseg ib zaug.
Marie Kondo, tus sau Lub Neej Hloov Khawv koob ntawm Tidying Up, txhawb kom koj hais, "Ua tsaug," rau cov khoom koj tsis xav tau ntxiv
Kauj Ruam 3. Sau cov duab ntawm cov khoom xa tuaj es tsis txhob cuam tshuam
Coj ib daim duab ntawm cov khoom koj tso tawm kom koj nco tau lawv. Snap ib daim duab thiab khaws cia rau hauv daim nplaub tshev digital yog li koj tuaj yeem saib nws thaum twg koj nyiam. Mus tom ntej, zam kev tsim cov nyom ntau dua los ntawm kev yees duab cov khoom tshwj xeeb ntau dua li txuag lawv.
- Piv txwv li, koj tuaj yeem txuag 1 daim duab uas koj tus menyuam tau ua thiab thaij duab tas.
- Ib yam li ntawd, cia peb hais tias koj niam tais yawm txiv tso koj tseg cov tais diav uas koj tsis nyiam. Nqa daim duab ntawm cov tais diav uas tau teeb tsa ntawm lub rooj, tom qab ntawd muab pub dawb rau ib tus neeg uas yuav hlub lawv.
Tswv yim:
Khaws cov duab digital thiab khaws cia rau hauv huab tuaj yeem pab koj txiav rov qab ntawm qhov tsis sib xws hauv koj lub tsev.
Kauj Ruam 4. Pub lossis muab yam khoom uas koj tsis xav tau ntxiv lawm
Nws yuav yooj yim dua tso koj cov khoom yog tias koj paub tias lawv mus rau lub tsev zoo. Txheeb nrog koj tsev neeg thiab cov phooj ywg seb lawv puas xav tau cov qub txeeg qub teg lossis cov khoom koj paub tias lawv nyiam. Nqa koj cov khoom seem mus rau kev siab hlub uas khaws cov khoom rau cov neeg xav tau lossis khw muag khoom lag luam uas muag cov khoom siv.
Koj tseem tuaj yeem muag koj cov khoom yam tsis xav tau ntawm lub chaw muag tsheb lossis online. Txawm li cas los xij, tsis txhob nqa cov khoom tsis muag rov qab los rau hauv koj lub tsev
Lub tswv yim
- Tsis txhob nyuaj siab kom ua kom zoo. Ua koj qhov zoo tshaj plaws thiab rov xyuas koj lub hom phiaj kev koom tes raws li xav tau.
- Yog tias koj muaj menyuam, qhia lawv yuav ua li cas txo qis kev xav tsis sib haum, ib yam. Qhov no tuaj yeem pab koj khaws lub tsev huv.
- Pub dawb lossis muag koj cov khoom yam tsis xav tau kom lawv mus rau lub tsev zoo.
